Year: 2020

There are two major sections to PURPOSE.  The first helps us make better everyday decisions by making them ‘with and on purpose’.  This we call living a ‘Purpose-Decisive’ Life. ‘With’ purpose means to have a specific reason for doing something, and ‘on’ purpose means to make that decision deliberately without hesitation or delay once you know what you want to do and why you want to do it. If you are not making purposeful decisions, then you must be making most of them either by default or reaction.  There are many internal and external factors which influence our decision-making. Some…

Now that you have laid the foundations for your new more Intentional life, it is time to get to work.  HA! We’ve only just begun! We have a mantra to remember: Know It!, Plan It!, Be It!. First, there are things you need to know, understand and integrate that will be the basis for your planning and being more Intentional.  They are your PURPOSE, VALUES, and VISION. Here, in the two phases of PURPOSE, you discover why you are here and how you can make more purposeful decisions in your life every day. An Intentional life is guided by your…

The last of the four foundations from a more Intentional Life is your Comfort Zone (CZ).  For some, a place of security and confidence, for others a place to hide and be complacent.  We should strive for a better and bigger life by always having something outside our CZ pulling us to stretch ourselves to newer heights.  But, be careful. Stretching too far outside at one time can cause us fear and panic which we will react to by going back inside our CZ afraid to venture out again.  The secret to enlarging your CZ properly is small steps every…

The change formula is only the beginning of the change cycle.  Do you want the change to be temporary or permanent? If permanent, this is where the 3rd foundation comes into play.  The Cycle of Mastery (COM). When you look closely at the first step of the COM, you see the first three steps of the Change Formula.  They are the attitude adjustment process. Since Attitude is the ‘foundation’ of everything, it has to start with what kind of attitude you have toward the skill, habit or action you want to create or take.  The end of that attitude adjustment…